Q&A: Love, Security & Free Will

QUESTION SUMMARY: Am I right to feel secure regarding current boyfriend’s rediscovering his “first love”?

(important note: Names are changed in the interest of privacy.)

From “Bella”:

“Things are going pretty well between me and my boyfriend right now.  Really, things are better now than they have ever been.   Our communication is better, we’ve been doing better in our separate lives, we’ve been closer together, and we’ve enjoyed each other more.  A few days ago though he came to me and told me he  recently found “Jolie” again, a woman who was, well, his “first love”.  She broke his heart years ago and a part of me feels he has never really completely “let go” of it.
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